Thanks everyone.
Here is what I did.
(a)
The Grub4dos method (Didn't work)
It boot up with find menu1.lst message end in a command prompt.
Grub>
Seem it can't find the menu1.lst,
Maybe I got some of the syntax wrong?
(b)
Plop Boot Manager +Grub 0.97 (Worked)
All the while I'm aware that Plop can boot bootable partition, so it was a matter or making the partition bootable.
I just use grub 0.97 (legacy grub) and install as normal to SDA3,
I swear I tried this earlier but it didn't work.
But don't know why, this time it work and Plop can boot up SDA3 and from there I select based on the menu.lst on SDA3.
(c) Com32 module of Syslinux + Grub 0.97(worked)
Porteus menu already have the option to boot up from the 1st hard disk & 1st bootable partition(usually window os)
Since now grub 0.97 made my SDA3 bootable, just edit Porteus,cfg
Copy the boot from 1st hard disk menu
Just amend
APPEND hd0 1 (hd0 = 1st hard disk ,1 = 1st partition)
In my case since is SDA3 = 3rd partition
I use
APPEND hd0
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Conclusion
I can boot up using:
(a) Plop selecting the 3rd partition (SDA3)
(b) Porteus.cfg Menu Entry to boot from 3rd Partition
Once I boot up in the 3rd partition, I'm presented with Grub menu.lst and make my selection from there.
While this involve a double menu, but for an emegency spare os which will be use less often (touch wood here

) it accepatable.
Side Notes
The laptop is Lenovo G50-70 I3 uefi turn off booting in legacy mode. The win 8.1 with Bing died after my tingkering.
Unfortunately with both Slax Remux V09 or even Porteus s3.1 32 bits , booting up :
(a) Screen Brightness OK
Fortunately the default screen brightness is ok (ok in the sense this is what I would have selected or I might reduced the brightness a bit).
(b) Wired Internet Work
Work
[c](c) Track Pad / Track Pad switch off button Work[/b]
Work
(d) Screen Blankout / Switch off button work
Work
All others like wifi, sound, sound volume button, brightness button don't work.
Bluetooth - no idea as I don't have and bluetooth device,
I tried the Ubuntu family of Ubuntu, Kubuntu & Linux Mint. Everything work I think.
I even installed Kubauntu (this is the 1st time I install a full fledge linux distro).
After done I install 1 sole software (I never did anything else at all). I istall I must have file manager of Krusader
using Kubuntu Muon Software Centre
Afterward Krusader did work.
But true enough after rebooting Kubuntu can't start. I got the 1st item of the menu which is memtest.
Fair enough, if I'm familiar with Ubuntu I probably could edit the grub2??? menu.
But thanks but no thanks. I don't want an os even with perfert hardware detection that broke after I download an install the 1st application from their own software centre.
Maybe it's something to do with Krusader but it was in their software centre,
So once again thanks guy you can't imagine how happy I am still to be the the slax , slax Remix & Porteus world.
Especially since Porteus have a life saving (now) Installer.
Previous I wouldn't use it as I alway use grub0.97 manually or now grubconfig.
It had always work.
But now with the uefi laptoop and also a uefi desktop, both with uefi turn off , booting in legacy mode ,window 8 gpt partition deleted, reformat with msdos file partition with the usual linux ext4 partitions , grub 0.97 is failing to install.
So even if I end up still using slaxremixv09 (right now you have to drag my stiff cold dead body to kde4 world)
I will use Porteus installer,
Hey maybe I will like Plasma 5 (KDE 5).
Special thanks to Fanthom.
Just know that, while it may be not what you intended, but your creation of
slaxremix v09 is alive out there in the wilderness,,,,,