fanthom wrote:in my case xterm appeared immediately but kwin crashed:
Same here.
I tested this case using various ssh servers.
Server OS | Client in KDE | Client in LXDE
Arch Linux | Slow | Good
Vine Linux 6.0 | Slow | Good
Arch Linux 64bit | Slow | Good
Frenzy 1.2 | Slow | Good
Porteus 1.2 remote | KWin crashed | Good
Porteus 1.2 localhost | Good | Good
Posted after 4 hours 56 minutes 40 seconds:
I thought I would try another distro using Trinity to see if it has the same problem. But according to the distrowatch search, Porteus is the only distro which uses Trinuty.

I will try some Debian based distro and apt-get install Trinity.
Posted after 8 hours 37 minutes 10 seconds:
I tested this on Debian 6.0 after installing Trinity Desktop environment. The results were all good.
Server OS | Client in TDE
Arch Linux | Good
Porteus 1.2 | Good
The TDE version installed to Debian 6.0 was 3.5.13, while that of Porteus is R 14.0.0[DEVELOPMENT].